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secular premarital counseling

Preparing for marriage is about more than planning a wedding day. It’s about building a partnership that can handle real life with clarity, trust, and emotional connection.

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what to expect in premarital counseling

our approach

At Delilah Counseling, our secular premarital counseling program is designed for couples who want to strengthen their relationship before marriage — without a faith-based framework. Whether you’re newly engaged or considering a lifelong commitment together, we offer a safe, inclusive, evidence-based space to build communication skills, resolve disagreements, and deepen emotional intimacy.

Mutual respect, self-reflection, and practical tools for navigating real-life challenges are at the heart of our approach. You and your partner get tailored support that honors your values, goals, and unique relationship dynamics.

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focus areas

communication skills

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financial management

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sex + intimacy

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gender roles

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family of origin

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conflict cylces

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secular premarital counseling

what makes our program different

Evidence-based tools grounded in research (not religious doctrine) to help you navigate core relationship areas. 

Flexibility to explore if and how spirituality or personal belief systems matter to your relationship — without assuming a specific religious framework. 

A focus on communication, conflict patterns, shared goals, and expectations that matter in everyday married life.

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individualized support

we tailor premarital counseling to your goals

Every couple is different. If your relationship brings up specific questions — like differing long-term goals, blended family planning, cultural expectations, or communication blocks — at Delilah, we tailor your counseling to address those topics. Sometimes this grows into more focused couples therapy — and that’s okay. The work you do now can set a strong foundation for years to come. 

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Delilah Counseling offers expert therapy, helping you overcome anxiety, relationships, and life transitions. Reach out to us today — we’ll match you with the therapist who fits your needs, goals, and schedule.

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you have questions, we have answers

  • No — some couples benefit from starting this work before formal engagement to clarify hopes, expectations, and compatibility early on. 

  • No, it’s not required — but completing a certified premarital counseling program can reduce your marriage license fee if you choose to submit a certificate of completion through our Prepare/Enrich premartial counseling program.

  • Yes! Our telehealth sessions provide the same depth and structure as in-person meetings. 

  • We offer flexible formats to support your schedule and goals. Our standard premarital series includes 4–10 weekly sessions (most couples choose between 6-8 sessions). Your counselor will work with you to decide the right path based on timing, relationship history, and goals.